Honestly, i feel like a definition of what asexuality is at the beginning of this video would've helped you out here! as an asexual person, i can say that asexuality refers to a lack of sexual attraction. no one is attractive to me. however, i do have a libido! and i do experience romantic attraction to people. i express my romantic attraction to people through my libido sometimes. i'm oversimplifying this a bit, but that's sort of the basic outline of my experiences.